Diary of Botak Chand

Friday, May 27, 2011

For better or for worse, I DO ...

"I, (Bride/Groom) take (Bride/Groom) to be my (wife/husband), to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward till death do us part."

Wondering how many couples have actually taken steps back to ponder upon those responsibilities associating this vow. Society itself had evolved in such that responsibilities in life can be easily cater out to others through monetary means, like hiring of domestic maids or private nurses etc not mentioning about love. An impulse desire for love which lead to "Will You Marry Me ?", can now be easily settled through procedure of papers signing in order to get out of this "misery". What has happened to "till death do us part." ? This has greatly put shame upon marriage vow as it used to merit utmost respects between the binded ones.

Malicious occurrences during this wrenched process further inflates heart twinges within, forcing individuals to appeal sympathies from families & friends. Such poignant episodes never fail to recur around us. But what much could we do to help in such case since we'll not in their shoes ? What or how could bypassers' comment enlighten either party ? Seriously, i thought none.

Sad but true, believed that the once upon time "happily forever after" had already lost it's preeminence over changing time. Therefore how could those once hurt, dare leaping steps forward into relationship again. Through sincere & genuine efforts perhaps, some says .. ... This i'm still seriously pondering bout .. ..